Okay, here are some tips on how to do it right. If you want all the details about how to do it right you're going to have to Read my Book. People think that great lovers do great things that the average person could never do. That's not the way it really is. The way it really is is that a lot of guys do things wrong and a lot of what makes a great lover is not doing things wrong. So what I'm going to do here is give you the basics and tell you how to learn more for yourself.

Three billion years ago life formed on this planet. At some point similar organisms started exchanging their DNA and sexual reproduction was started. In the early warm volcanic seas that covered the earth, some proto-organism fucked another proto-organism and life has been fucking ever since.

We are the descendants of three billion years of things fucking each other. Every form of life, from man down to plant life, wants to fuck something and exchange DNA. And we are the descendants of those who fucked, not of those who controlled themselves. There's nothing wrong with fucking and there's nothing wrong with fucking a total stranger. You have a dick and it's there for one reason only, and that's to fuck with. She has a cunt and its purpose is to get fucked. That what it does. The process is to put your dick in her and deliver your semen so as to get her pregnant. That's the instinct you are born with and she's born with. Obviously, you don't really want to get her pregnant. But your body wants to feel like you're getting her pregnant, and her body wants to feel like she's getting pregnant.

I have found that is best when you get down to the instinctive level. As much as we pride ourselves on being superior beings, we are just like all other life on earth and our animal instincts cause us to have to fuck. That's why you're paying an escort for her services -- because your body needs it. And that's Okay. That's the way it is. I didn't make the rules.

True love is just one style of having . There are many other styles. Just because you're not in love doesn't mean it's not personal and intimate.

When you get horny, you masturbate. That's part of the instinctual system that keeps you ready to fuck. You have to stay in shape so that when you get the opportunity to share your genetic material, you're ready. This has nothing to do with love or religion or other mystical powers. You're a man. You have a dick. You want to fuck. End of story.
Women are like that too. They have a cunt. It's there to receive a dick. Women need men to fuck them. They want to feel you get off inside them. They want to feel you pump your stuff into them and they want to contract their cunt around you when you do. They need it. They are women, that's what women do. Escorts are women too and have the same instincts as other women, often more.

A woman has a greater part of her body dedicated to having babies than a man does. She has a cunt that receives the dick, but she also has a uterus to carry fetuses and breasts for feeding babies. These organs are actively working in preparation for use. She has a period every month, giving her the opportunity to get pregnant. This is her instinct; she has to do it.

Women instinctively like and want to have orgasms. All you have to do is allow her instincts to do the job.

Women get horny like men do. They masturbate like we do. It keeps them hot and ready to get laid when the time comes. When a woman has , she wants to come. Pros have for money and often they don't want to come, but they are women and if you do it right, the instinct will take over.
Foreplay is mental as well as physical. Besides getting her ready physically, she also has to be ready mentally. And it's not just a matter of arousal. Must of foreplay involves developing trust. Women are more vulnerable during than men are. They are physically weaker than men, generally weigh less, and they are the one being penetrated. Women need to feel safe. So when you are touching women your touch should communicate to them that they are safe and that they can feel secure in enjoying themselves. In fact, generally the only limit to how much a woman can enjoy herself is how comfortable and safe she feels in how far she can let go. So a few candles, soft touches, and the right grin tell her she can drop her barriers and enjoy herself as much as she wants.

Much of is physical. You have your organ, she has hers. When you rub your dick right, you jack off and you come. When she rubs her cunt right, she jacks off and she comes. But if you rub it wrong, it doesn't work. One of the secrets is getting it right physically.

That's why you want to use lubrication. Scraping your dick against dry cunt flesh hurts both of you. When you grease it up, it slides in better and feels good to both of you. Get out the KY and grease it up. If it gets dry again, which sometimes happens even during good , pull it out and grease it up again.

Always make sure there is sufficient lubrication.

Next you have to get the angle right so that you're in her and she's comfortable. What I do is work it in slow, holding my body above her and letting her guide it in. I basically push forward gently and let her work it down in. This lets her get it in herself comfortably and at her own speed, so she will not hurt herself. If you cause her pain, she isn't going to come because pain isn't sexually stimulating. One of the so-called "secrets" of the great lovers is simply to not cause the woman to experience pain.
After it's in, then you give her room to adjust the angle of penetration. That way she can get her cunt around your cock and press your pubic bone up against her clit in a way that feels good to her. All you have to do is give her the room and the time to adjust herself. Generally, even a pro who may have had no intention of having an orgasm with you will instinctively put you in the position that feels best to her.

Pain is a distraction from sexual enjoyment. Make sure you're not crushing her or cutting off blood flow do to awkward positions. Give her room to position herself correctly so that she's comfortable.

You also want to be careful that you aren't accidentally hurting her. If you're lying on top of her, shift some of your weight to your knees or elbows and make sure you're not crushing her and she can breathe. This is more important for you big guys on small girls. Also try to make sure you're not cutting off blood flow to her arms or legs. You always want to watch and give her room to move to where she's comfortable.
Making love is a lot like petting a cat. The cat lets you know what it wants. Women are just like that. Once you're in and adjusted, she'll start screwing you because she's getting horny and someone has to start. And once she starts fucking you, all you have to do is respond to her bodily cues and she'll come and think you're the greatest lover in the world. And you didn't really do anything but allow her to jack herself off.

See, that's the big secret. Women will make themselves come. You don't have to do it to them; they already know how. Just give them the chance to do it to themselves. It's their instinct and unless they actively fight it, they have to do it. And most of the time they can't fight it. They are, after all, the descendants of three billion years of successful fucking. They can hardly ruin a tradition like that.

The easiest way to learn how to do it right is to have the escort get on top. That gives her the most control over the motion. You lay face up with a pillow under your butt, raising your pelvis a little higher than usual and allowing you to get in a little deeper. She gets on top of you and slides herself down on you. You smile and tell her how pretty she looks, lightly stroking her breasts and her nipples as she puts you into her. Then she works you all the way in at the angle she likes.

Women will give you clues as to what they want next. All you have to do is watch for the clues.

At this point you do nothing. Don't start fucking her; let her fuck you. Move only a little to match her movements but let her do the fucking. You just lay back and watch and touch her legs and breasts, her ass, her arms, kissing her softly on the arms. And just watch as she jacks herself off on top of you. She'll think you're an incredible lover, and you've done nothing but lay there and learn. And what you'll have learned is that even though you did almost nothing, you did nothing wrong. And you'll learn how women work and what they didn't teach you in school.
Even if the isn't all that great the first time, remember, it is, after all, your first time -- and like anything it will get better with practice. Your escort has been with a lot of men worse than you. She has done angry drunks who can't come and don't want to pay. She has done weirdoes who've threatened to hurt her. So if you are clean and polite, she's happy and she will look forward to seeing you again. You don't have to impress her with your manhood. Take the opportunity to learn -- and the education is worth the price. And chances are, she will enjoy teaching you.